What Is Tantric Massage?
A tantric massage is a loving touch filled with attention and existence, without a standard kind and predetermined outcome. Tantra massage is given from the heart. In a tantric massage, the entire body gets involved and erotic zones can likewise be touched. Of course, always with regard for (shared) limits. Tantra massage is an energetic massage where sexual energy also gets attention. A tantra massage occurs on the basis of equality and develops an intimate connection in between massage provider and receiver. Mentally, physically, at heart level and in some cases even at the depths of heart and soul. The function of a tantric massage is to "bring" the receiver in (the instructions of) a natural, thrilled state of being. The result is frequently a terrific physical, psychological wellness. Typically, the receiver is extremely relaxed, wonderfully streaming and ending up well in the heart, and in higher spheres.
Tantric Massage is everything about Caring touch
Tantra massage is given from the heart. Most touch will take place through the hands (or body to body) it is actually love that touches. The recipient is likewise present, and gets active and likewise feels (eventually) from the heart.
Loaded with attention and existence during tantric massage
A tantra massage is a caring touch complete of attention and presence. Both the provider and the receiver are completely present. Do not believe about the other day or tomorrow. Do not look around or being hectic with something else, no, your complete attention is on offering or getting the massage. A very mindful touch from the heart. Receive also very consciously, feeling it in your heart. Tantra massage is not about routine, fixed patterns are really out of the question. Whatever takes place in the minute, in full awareness, lovingly attuned to each other and the circumstance. Dreaming away or dropping off to sleep is also not planned (still, when that's exactly what you need, it's okay).
A tantric massage isn't really about an established result
A tantric massage will constantly be different. You never ever know how it will end up. It is not the method or the desired series of rubbing that is necessary, it has to do with exactly what is appropriate/necessary. What/where does the recipient most need at the moment? Exactly what is great for her/him? Love knows what to do, love always has a proper response. Therefore the massage will be precisely that what is required. Sufficient is that the giver is present and keeps tuning into his/her heart, to the frequencies of love. The divine likewise has its own plan, you can't "do" it.
Tantric massages for that reason often take a very unexpected course. A tantric massage does not always have to be "great", ending in happiness.
The best ways to get the finest from your tantric massage
Constantly with regard to limits
We understood it for a very long time, obviously, but given that the #MeToo discoveries, some things have actually come up worldwide of tantra massage. Masseurs (you do not hear that much about masseuses) who require their own sexual pleasure/lust on "customers". Obviously, this has little to do with tantric massage. The safety of both provider and receiver constantly must be ensured. Loving attunement always comes.
Set clear limits beforehand
Everyone (other than when you are enlightened) has his limitations. This is human and is likewise essential (read the post on safeguarding boundaries. Believe in advance (both as giver and receiver) what your limitations are. Make certain there is a correct intake, and a good preparation (also with your lover/massage partner). Set clear limits beforehand: about psychological boundaries, and also take care for clearness about physical borders. It is a misconception that a tantric massage should always be naked, rubbish. With clothing on is also entirely ok (though hard to work with oil then). It is likewise a misconception that a tantric massage should be focussed on the sexual parts of the body (breasts/sex), nonsense too. Personally, we have given/received many tantric massages only on the head. In addition, really each cell is sensual, however you will be amazed.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Activate and let flow easily
Activating and freeing the flow of life energy (prana) is the primary part of tantra massage. In a tantric massage, the whole body takes part and erotic zones can also be touched. In tantra massage we play with the activation of basic/ sexual/ psychological/ passionate/ love/ production/ intuitive energy.
Concentrated on the natural delighted state of being
There is a conversation going on whether tantra massage is part of "real" tantra. Well ... Tantra is a really useful, body-oriented motion, a vision of life intended at growing in love and consciousness. As far as we are concerned, tantra massage is one of them.
Normally leading to a fantastic physical, mental well-being
This is also the case with a tantra massage. A tantra massage is typically nice, often scrumptious. We, therefore, invite you to completely enjoy receiving ánd giving a tantric massage.
What Tantric massage isn't really?
There are numerous kinds of massage. Obviously, all massages have certain practices and methods in common. Bonuses Yet there is a big difference with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (focused on relaxation).
* Sports massage (focused on the muscles).
* Erotic massage (focused on enjoyment fulfillment).
* (Body) treatment (targeted at recovery).
Relaxation is a vital part of tantric massage, however of a completely different order than relaxation massage Why? Well since you are really incredibly energetic during/after the massage. You do not go to sleep (unless you are extremely worn out), you are very alert and conscious! A tantra massage is NOT an erotic massage either. If it gets stuck in sexual research or sexual complete satisfaction, we would call it various. Tantra massage is definitely not a treatment! It's a kind of fashion these days to see tantra massage as a treatment, however treatment is an occupation apart. Tantra massage definitely has recovery impacts, however that is not an end in itself.
The basics of tantric massage.
For a detailed explanation, see the article on the basics of tantric massage. In summary, the following basics stand out:
Tantra massage suggestions-- before you begin
* Create a warm, confutable tantric massage space (this can be done easily on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Provide excellent conditions (physically, but also psychologically).
* Explain contracts!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage suggestions-- during the massage.
* Start, stay, end linked to each other.
* Always keep your attention on the massage.
* Make sure your massage is need free, do not press or require anything.
* Open your own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Activate (sexual) energy and disperse it throughout the entire body.
* Don't just use your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* Every so often ... not do anything at all! Be 1000% present. Enjoy!
* Utilize your senses.
* Give feedback (satisfaction sounds?).
* Develop in combination (rest) moments.
Some masseurs are more/mainly worried about what they themselves discover enjoyable, fun, desirable. A tantra massage is not a work job, so as a provider you can likewise enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. So forget your own "requirements", keep away from your own concerns and above all ... do not attempt to force anything. Absolutely nothing needs to be done, absolutely nothing is required! Once again, do not aim to impose anything (your very own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! Tune in to exactly what the recipient requirements. It is as it is, and it goes as it goes. Rely on love. Maybe you are disappointed when somebody falls asleep. You may not be awaiting a psychological cry, however a tantric massage has no objective. No desired outcome. It is exactly what it is. Accept that.
Tantra massage tips-- after the massage.
* Take enough time to procedure, to let the massage settle.
* Require time to exchange your experiences.
* Understand that a tantric massage can have a result for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not right away go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 essential tantra massage suggestions (insights/rules).
* Do not work to an objective. We get asked all the time, it this a happy ending massage? Yes it can be, it normally is however there is no pressure for you to carry out, this is about letting that energy circulation.
* Regard limits, set clear borders beforehand. Our masseuses are mainly very open minded - they are naturally because of the nature of their work but they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the wishes of the recipient in mind, of course. Know that it can turn out in a different way.
* It is always an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Trigger sexual energy. Stimulate the entire body. Being excited is typical and preferable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are extremely important! A lot can show up.
* Be alert to renewed freezing minutes. Avoid limits from being crossed once again.
* Step by step ending up being freer ... Growing trust ... fine. But beware: no sex! Practice makes ideal. Enjoying the restored balance and connection in between sex and heart.
* Give feedback (e.g. enjoyment noises) and supply integration moments (just doing absolutely nothing).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual satisfaction, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage happen?
Do not discharge, however recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we mean don't hurry towards the weather ending, hold it, be in the minute, let that sexual energy construct and flood your entire body.
Possible results of tantric massage.
Offers peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you out of your head. A massage that brings peace and relaxation to your body. You will be calm and unwinded (but you will not fall asleep). During/after the massage it becomes quiet in your head (sometimes entirely empty).
Brings your life energy into movement.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of wonderfully flowing life energy. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a prospective healing impact. Even though tantra massage is not the very same as healing, this release may heal some blockades.
Makes you soft and caring.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You end up being more loving, you discover what it is like to enjoy yourself. You experience that everything, including your sexuality, can be there, without judgment. Which gives a splendidly liberating and deeply satisfied sensation.
Is taking pleasure in.
You will feel comfy in your body. The mix of relaxation and a great deal of energy suggests that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies. With the love change, you may end up being not only cheerful however even euphoric. A happy state of being is possible. The more you surrender, the better you will feel.
In short, tantric massage is ...
* A loving touch.
* Loaded with attention and existence.
* The entire body gets involved.
* Energetic massage, including sexual energy.
* Without basic type, without predefined outcome.
* With regard to (shared) boundaries.
* Establishes a (heart) connection between the giver and receiver.
* Focused on the natural, happy state of being of the recipient.
* Usually leading to a terrific physical, psychological well-being (of both).